Eternal torment: The Search

Saturday, February 25, 2006

i yanked this off Regina's lj. :P

and I must say, I'm appalled! I'm NOT a neglected kid...I think. Overall the report is rather accurate but there are certain points that I find weird. Then there are some which I no longer have. Guess which ones they are...

The Questioner

"I am affectionate and skeptical."

Questioners are responsible, trustworthy and value loyalty to family, friends, groups and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.

How to get along with me:

Be direct and clear.
Listen to me carefully.
Don't judge me on my anxiety.
Work things thorough with me.
Reassure me that everything is OK between us.
Laugh and make jokes with me.
Gently push me to new experiences.
Try not to overreact to me overreacting.

What I like being a SIX:

Being committed and faithful to family and friends
Being responsible and hardworking.
Being compassionate towards others
Having intellect and wit.
Being a non-conformist.
Confronting danger bravely
Being direct and assertive

What's hard being a SIX

The constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind.
Procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself
Fearing of being abandoned or taken advantage of
Exhausting myself worrying and scanning for danger
Wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right.
Being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations.

SIXES as Children often:-

are friendly, likeable, dependable, sarcastic, bossy, stubborn, anxious, hyper vigilant; anticipate danger.
Forms a team of "us against them" with a best friend or a parent
Looks to groups or authorities to protect them
Questions authority and rebel
Are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent

Sixes as Parents

are often loving, nurturing and have a strong sense of duty
are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
worry more than most that their children will get hurt
sometimes have trouble saying "No" and setting boundaries

You know you're a six if you have a enemies list and your name is the first one.

You know you're NOT a six if you never count change.

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http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=12721960859055255705

Transmitted on 11:58 PM

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